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和韩国人不愉快地经历最近和办公室里的韩国人发生了不愉快的事情。在这里记一笔，以警他人。本来我对韩国人的印象没什么不好的，韩国菜也蛮好吃。但是和此次事件中的韩国人共事后才发现韩国人不像他们自己拍的韩剧当中的人一样善良为本（在这里不想排除肯定韩国有好人但是...）。 我和办公室的韩国女生共事了快一年，她比我早一年，算得上师姐。可是一年当中其实不愉快的事情有不少，但我都还是对她抱以良好的态度。最让我气愤的是，大家一起做老板的project。我是后来加入的因此不了解状况，她居然当我面说我问她SAME STUPID QUESTIONS. 我认为这是非常INSULTING的事。我在邮件中问她关于夏天的安排-这样我们可以确定各自的办公室时间，她说NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS。我好意称呼她为小组的LEADER，她竟然说我开她玩笑，伤害了她的FEELING。她无论在口头还是邮件中不止一次跟我说过I DONT CARE ABOUT YOU，我不知道是谁伤害谁的FEELING。在办公室的时候，我比她先来，她就说非要用我正在用的电脑，要我停下手中的工作去用另外一台，我说马上好了你等一下，她就说你不能FLEXIBLE一点吗，并且非要我说个时间什么时候走。刚认识她的时候我曾问她，因为我们都是奖学金，所以我问她夏天是不是还会有每个月的stipend，结果她说她不CARE，她说没钱发她也会自费上学，我不想说她有什么隐含的意思，也许她是没有意识。但是之后的相处中，我非常明显地从各个方面感觉到韩国人对中国人和对美国人很不同。办公室里还有个美国女孩，我可以非常明显地感觉到区别。韩国人和日本人一样，从骨子里媚外。
最近听说韩国人在申请端阳节为其世界文化遗产，并且声称饺子是韩国的发明。等等等等。在国外待的越久就越可以感受到自己对国家的归属感，有很多兴奋和骄傲，但是也有很多很多失落。希望希望兄弟姐妹们睁大眼睛看待韩国人，还有要一起努力建设祖国阿！
无题最近不知道为什么，觉得自己开始升级到邢大哥发呆什么都不想的层次了-以前都还是要在发呆的时候任思绪飞扬下的。果然心情好多了。想我们办公室的门口写的那句话真的很对-“Be sure that half the shit you worried about doesnt happen anyway!”
然后看了一堆小丸子的故事， 不知不觉也像她一样真是不知道什么事情都可以拿来开心一会儿了。
global gallery 的作业我还是打算致力于把中国handcrafts引进到gallery store里面, 现在还没什么点子呢，再想想把。
又作了一次jung typology test, 没想到我是ENFJ 阿-只有extraverted是外向的，跟着就是intuitive, feeling, judging. 还是挺像我的吧？ public finance exam总算是考完这个public finance的最后一场了。开学看syllbus的时候真是很汗阿-inclass debate... 不知道是怎么回事的。还好Cindy 姐姐给我的rubuttal写了张纸条，我是照着读的亚lol...不过不管怎样，总算是熬过这一关了。回想站在台上讲的时候，真的不觉得下面坐了一堆美国人，虽然不是陌生的面孔，也不算很熟，就想他们是一群大白菜了：P。老师给我做手势了吗，我都没看他，估计他觉得我太不给面子了，不给我好分。。
下了学去吃了一顿-ethiopian的小餐店，high上往北，名字叫Blue Nile Restaurant. 炖羊肉yegbgeg？还不错，辣酱真好吃，卷菜用的饼也还不错，可惜没喝到特色的guafa fruit的果汁。。。不好的是，我们坐在traditional setting的位置上了，板凳桌子很漂亮，但是居然要一个人1.25刀-就在那里坐一下！
吃饭的时候想起一个组辩论的一个大个子somali人说不喜欢中国菜来的，那么他大概常来这馆子吧，毕竟是隔壁国亚。：P 总的来说不推荐常去，尝个鲜就好了。
WHAT WE WANT FOR A BETTER HALF?HOPEFULLY TO THE PERSON I COULD SAY THESE FOLLOWING WORDS:
For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see For all the joy you brought to my life For all the wrong that you made right For every dream you made come true For all the love I found in you I'll be forever thankful baby You're the one who held me up Never let me fall You're the one who saw me through through it all You were my strength when I was weak You were my voice when I couldn't speak You were my eyes when I couldn't see You saw the best there was in me Lifted me up when I couldn't reach You gave me faith 'coz you believed I'm everything I am Because you loved me You gave me wings and made me fly You touched my hand I could touch the sky I lost my faith, you gave it back to me You said no star was out of reach You stood by me and I stood tall I had your love I had it all I'm grateful for each day you gave me Maybe I don't know that much But I know this much is true I was blessed because I was loved by you You were always there for me The tender wind that carried me A light in the dark shining your love into my life You've been my inspiration Through the lies you were the truth My world is a better place because of you... IS THIS POSSIBLE? so nice to have somany friendsthank you to anya, sophie, laoma, lin, stella, annie, carol, sarah, fiona, lily, alan, kingkong papa, frank, alanna, kiwi, ruby, waipo,brian...etc. love u all..:) new life beginI know its Damocris sword overhead, but I will keep on as ive always been. thx to all. dream, dreaming想想自己的梦想是支撑在多么脆弱的支点上的啊。只不过薄薄的一层纸，有心的话不是一捅就破么。可是我也看到那另外的一边有光亮的感觉，刺激我的眼睛。这么长久以来，不是靠着这微弱的亮光，领我来到这里的么。我是可以无视周围的darkness,就只冲着some未知的明灯，义无返顾的。因为我相信，无论什么事情，一念之间，可以是地狱，也就可以是天堂。不然我拿什么撑到现在？！我现在所能左右的，也就是黑暗里的我自己；哪个明天里我终于成了不是我自己的那个人，可以面对所谓的光明了，我就长大了。也除了那个壳，什么都没有了。
一个梦，一个梦罢了。
谢谢苏菲。 谢谢妈妈才知道只有父母是会用他们的一生来爱你的人。而且他们从很早以来就一直都在这么做了。谢谢妈妈  。ToT。。pic myselfWhen it comes to putting myself down on the paper, I felt blocked. The difficulty of showing urself on a two dimentional, black n white stage to some thickglassed picky critic is just like carving out of real clay a misty image in the stupid memory u d like to keep remembering.
Those people I have been loving, but probably have alrdy stoled away from my heart exist still somewhere in a way I cudnt tell any more how their faces their thoughts impressed me but some mere impression of, in most cases, a paticular smile, a touch of hands, a proper greeting, or some tears of passion or joy.
What remains when footprints tide away is only the awareness of them being presented there on the sands once before but we no longer remember when it took place and how, though, we have been greatly influenced, unnoticed. 邓波儿卷发Celine said: hows it feel like to have ur hair curled?
i: awful..
Celine: how was that possible?
i:didnt u see?!!!
celline:i thought its cutie.
i:...but
celine: take it easy, ull get used to it..
i: yea, have to..
Celine:...well, take it easy..ur baby bear wud get used to it as well..
i: ToT...
Celine:anyway...bit too late to regret on it:P... cheer up lady!
i: ...
Comments on to be continued... New SeasonThe baby finally came...
...
It was official.
A new season has begun.
Maybe its our mistakes make our fate. Without them, what will shape our lives?
Perhaps if we never veered off course we wouldnt have fallen in love or have babies or be who we are. After all, seasons change. so do cities, people coming into your life and people go.
But ifs comforting to know, the ones you love are always in your heart.
And if you're very lucky, a plane right away.  These are the special times ITS A SUNNY DAY...  GO FOR AN OUTING WITH THE FAMILY... ON FERRY BOAT...SEA SICK...
  ISLAND OF BUDDHLISM... CHARTERED CAR      SO NICE A DAY...PIC...PIC...PIC...WHAT A SCENE!!!   ...OPPS...ITS GOT TO BE VERY LATE...GOTTA BACK HOME;) BACK IN SHANGHAI BY 2:00AM... REALLY NICE TIME SPENT WITH THE FAMILY...HEHE
hope everything s gonna be fine with everyone of u:)
DADDad's so busy that hes always neglecting me. better not IGNOREING.. but yesterday he called mom N i was told i had been the core subject between them all through this one n half hour phonecall.. thats really kool..:)
he said hed come for the grad.ceremony NoMatterWhat next year..bt hes coming back, let me see, at most three times year out! as i could remember, last time when he was with us, was in April 05. we as usual dined out, at some DONG BEI restaurant nearby..I dont like the food though its good time spent with him n mom together..
last yer in Sep. we went for the formula one game..it was fascinating bt too noisy..most importantly i didnt bring my glasses! seeing nothing clearly n understanding no game rules..indeed harsh time..whilst dad's been so excited..but its fun anyway..
last last time as i remember, was one of the greatest nite ive ever spent with the family.:) its VALENTINES DAY 04. n we were at some PUB 97 restaurant in FX park. it was so nice. the place, the atmosphere, the food, and the price! ;P well dad paid..hehe..hes some kind of PREACHING GUY..why shouldve i been so intoxicated being his LOYAL STUDENT!! :)
ai,,,dad.. i hope u could know how deep im loving u n' how desperate im willing to see u n' be with u..how much pride im always taking in you..for having u as dad..being there, has long been my spiritual pillar...
miss u...
daughter angel in loveI cannt believe u here with me..n now it seems my worlds complete. n i never want this moment to end..so close my eyes n dont let go...coz this is love boy! dont u know...and together for.. eternity...i pray so many nites that u would come my way.An angel from above to light my darkest day..i think its time for u to hear these lines..theres something I wanna say..I finally found what ive been looking for..n now u know im gonna love u more..hold me tight coz its always been u..its always been u..to think that u will always there... to be my friend n wipe away my tears...n now u know that its always been u..its always been u...
what a song!-jannet jackson 大音稀声某人说你知道JOB, CAREER AND LIFE-TIME ACHIEVEMENT 的区别伐？
工作，事业，终生成就对嘛啦。
结果高人的评价是马田史高西斯的成名作《穷街陋巷》是关于JOB,《盗亦有道》是 CAREER,哥普拉的《教父》是LIFE-TIME ACHIEVEMENT。
想想也是。现在还是青涩undergrad.简历投投没人搭理；intern一来哪个敢拒，不要说EXPERIENCE n/a PLUS PAYMENT nego.交通伙食补贴下已经十分要卖力，何况想象步入JOB的殿堂还两腿发软手心发麻。另两个还怎么敢想？！
PLATO老头说什么KNOW THYSELF的时候我们大概已经慢慢错过了二十三十四十的 learning process, 从立志到而立到不惑就是追逐着那个后知后觉的自我不断奔跑忙碌的日子的累计。一天一天这么地重复脚步却越来越沉重。生活到卡带得时候还要由我么自己过来纠正，ALWAYS KEEP THE RIGHT TRACK似乎其实大家都不自觉地IN THIS GAME，TO THIS RULE.
佛说骑骡找骡，出门越远，越迷失自我。但是如果我们generation Y要找的right man/right path/right thy就在眼前，还要考虑它是不是life-time achievement干什么啦。
我又不“执”的咯。
高人又说莱JOB是出境是炒楼是早餐阿姨是拍托，是煎汉堡包；CAREER是出色是置业是曾荫权是好好恋爱，是开爿麦当劳分店；LIFE-TIME ACHIEVEMENT是出神入化是地产发展商是孙中山是白头到老，是管理出快餐企业王国。搞搞清楚你要做什么？
我说我要做个优雅的老女人，在不得不老去得时候，他绝倒。
你太天真莱？
哎－天助自助吧。God bless You all:)
case competitionToday, is to be remembered in history. Its the last day of our IVEY course-case competition. I would be indeed miss the classtime, the teaching style, the twenty-sth-pages long cases, n Bob and Lina-our teachers n all those sincere mates... theyve been already deeply emblazoned in my mind n they r fortune Id be cherishing all my life... We won the second prize in the game. n all the team members were really excited abt it...theyve been so fanatic so hard working so devoted, indeed, each of them, which impressed me so much... and they r all so lovely people...' to hold a true friend with both hands' then came to my mind... well, there were laughters, tears, debates, consensus...and always room for improvements. I believe weve already got the most out of it, the competition et the courses. :-) But its been a really tiring day... I almost "HUNDAO" on the previous night... :P maybe ill have to exercise more... Also, thx to Edward, one of the judges, hes been really helpful. n thx to all his 'TOUGH' questions aft our presentation which gave us further chance to make our points clearer... love u all...
BUFABUFAYesterday, we were having this game. Its so interesting and amazing that I couldnt find the right words to define it properly... The two cultrues designed are ALPHA n BETA. I was in the ALPHA group. The group first elected a chief, whos gonna protect our women. with baton-a red pencil in hand, he could disapprove the wrong person (HES THE JUDGE) from the other cultrue by being the first talking to visitors. The official power, n probably the greatest power was the '111' sign on the paper. whenever u come across an alien with this sign on his/her paper instead of the chief's approving signature, u would HAVE TO scream... I did it once.:P %$#@$^&^%$@... The girl talking to me was thrown out... well, its a bit rude n that reminds me of the word XHENOPHOBE. The process of communication always takes time. It requires both cultual alertness and cultual intelligence. How many times we sent people to alien cultures and how did we receive observers of theirs? Do we ever notice the board placed at airports saying: Grasshopper, America-Pest; China-Pet; Thailand-Appetizer? God created the Tower of Babel complicating the game but we have been and still are tasting n enjoying this complication of a labyrinth. At least I am. oh, yes. the BETA grp. is like giving gestures to exchange poker. no verbal exchange at all. gotta stop here. leonardleo thx for what u've said in hi5 site. confucius once told his disciples that the place for us to rest was where we should sleep forever. well, thats definitely not what I mean.:P but on the road we might better cherish everything, every people n every opp. that comes up...cuz they are all gifts and id hold true friends with both hands...
coulda woulda shoulda...its exhaustingly frustrating today...bt its shameful n too costly to cry for it...ei.. coulda woulda shoulda... |
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